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Obesity clinic enables teen to change his life

A Strong4Life patient and her mother are counseled by an exercise specialist at the Health4Life clinic at Children’s Healthcare of Atlanta. Strong4Life is an effort to fight childhood obesity in Georgia. Photo provided

Reflecting, Gayla Grubbs recalled that her 15-year-old son, Sam, had a weight problem since he was in the third grade. “He gained weight gradually, and I didn’t realize until it was full blown,” she said.

But the realization about Sam’s weight problem and the determination to do something about it did not hit home until she learned that her son’s middle school classmates were teasing and bulling him.

“He began complaining about not wanting to go to school,” Grubbs said, feeling her child’s pain. “I decided last May that this was a good time for us to seek help about his weight, as he was transitioning to high school. I wanted Sam to be healthy more than anything else.”

Sam’s story is not unique. Indeed, nearly 40 percent of Georgia’s children are overweight or obese, making Georgia the state with the second-highest rate of childhood obesity, according to Children’s Healthcare of Atlanta. Nationally, childhood obesity has tripled since 1980, with nearly one in three children either overweight or obese, according to the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC).

There are two reasons for this epidemic: children today are less active than previous generations, and they eat too many empty calories. And as pediatrician Dr. Stephanie Walsh explained, parents of overweight children are often the last to notice the problem.

Childhood obesity causes a myriad of physical health problems that are well known: hypertension, heart disease and diabetes. But there are psychological scars as well. “It is heartbreaking to listen to my patients talk about being bullied by other kids because of their weight,” said Walsh, who directs Strong4Life, a clinic at Children’s Healthcare of Atlanta for youth struggling with weight issues. “Many of them develop anxiety, depression and a feeling of helplessness.”

Sam, now a patient at Strong4Life, had healthy self-esteem at home but not at school. “Sam said he didn’t realize he has a weight problem,” Grubbs said, “but deep down he knew he had an issue. I think he was in denial.”

As with most parents in this situation, Grubbs accepts much of the blame. She regrets “enabling” Sam to be sedentary. Like many other kids his age, Sam loves sitting at home and playing video games—especially Modern Warfare. But blame is not a word that Walsh uses when treating overweight children and their families.

“Instead, I use the word responsibility,” she stated. “Anyone involved in a child’s life has a responsibility.” That includes pediatricians who must address the issue early, school officials who have removed physical education from the curriculum, and lawmakers who think it is acceptable to include doughnuts on school breakfast menus, she said.

Strong4Life takes an uncommon approach to weight loss. For one thing, the clinic does not set specific weight loss goals for its patients. It is all about making a lifestyle change, explained Walsh. She encourages Sam and her other patients to add another vegetable to their diet—perhaps a vegetable they have never tried before. Walsh also prompts the children to add an additional 15 to 30 minutes to their new exercise routine.

Sam’s new lifestyle of healthier eating and exercise has resulted in him losing inches, at the same time adding muscle mass to his 5-foot-9-inch frame. Grubbs, a restaurant owner, said she hired a personal trainer for Sam, who now works out at a gym with his friends.

Getting family members involved in the patient’s new lifestyle is an integral part of Strong4Life’s approach. Indeed, experts say a successful program includes the whole family eating healthier foods and becoming active.

Grubbs said she was overweight as a child and has struggled with weight issues most of her life. “I started changing my lifestyle about six months before Sam began going to the clinic,” she revealed. “I did not want to perpetuate this problem to the next generation.” She now goes to the gym with Sam and supports him at home by making sure her family has healthy choices of food available.

Walsh emphasized that parents with overweight children are making a mistake if they approach weight loss like a New Year’s resolution. “Don’t say we will eat better from now on or no more junk food, ever,” she said. “That is not realistic. Making New Year’s sort of resolutions just do not work.”

Instead, Walsh recommends making a series of small commitments to healthy eating, such as introducing a new vegetable on Wednesdays and then perhaps serving fish on Thursday nights. And do not make the mistake of starting an over-ambitious exercise program. Begin with a five-minute walk and then set a goal of adding three minutes the following week—incremental changes make all the difference.

Sam has made significant progress, and his self-esteem is building. There are challenges ahead as he moves forward, but he and his mother are committed to following through on their lifestyle change.

Walsh is thrilled. “It is the best feeling in the world to see kids make a positive change in how they feel about themselves and their ability to make a change,” she said.


Comments (6)

Halla
Said this on 3/8/12 At 05:40 am
This sounds like a good clinic, why aren't the ideas from it being used in the school curriculum? Since the focus is on lifestyle changes and helping kids be healthier, why pick on the fat kids? Why wouldn't this stuff be taught to all? Sedentary, junk-eating skinny kids are going to be just as unhealthy as sedentary, junk-eating fat kids, after all.

Also, what is being done to address the issue of bullying in school? I doubt that the bullies (other kids, remember, not some shadowy anonymous organisation) have shut up and gone away just because some kids are a bit more active and feeling better about themselves. I totally agree that the response to bullying is not to capitulate and change.
Kath
Said this on 3/8/12 At 02:51 am
How about, instead of teaching fat kids to not be fat to avoid bullying, we focus on teaching the horrible little trolls bullying fat kids to behave like decent human beings?

How about teaching ALL kids how to obtain and prepare nutritious meals? How about making physical activity joyful and safe for ALL kids?

How about you stop stigmatising fat kids and start focusing on the health of every kid?
mwood
Said this on 3/7/12 At 02:22 am
Focus on the healthy eating and adding exercise that kids like to do and will continue to do and leave weight out of it. Encourage kids to do healthy things and their health will improve whether their weight goes down or not. But if you make weight loss the focus of those changes, the reason for those changes, instead of health, if and/or when weight loss doesn't happen, kids will think they've failed, wonder why they bothered to do something that didn't make them "healthy" (read "thin", because our culture has equated health with being thin for too long now), and will stop doing those things that actually improved their health but didn't lower their weight. And you've set them up for a lifetime of failure, lowered self-esteem, weight cycling, eating disorders, and a less healthy life than they would have had if you had left their weight out of it.
As for the bullies - they are the ones at fault here, not the ones being bullied. Would you tell a smart child who is being bullied for being smart to dumb himself down so he won't be bullied? Would you tell a disabled child who is being bullied for being disabled to just not be disabled anymore so he won't be bullied? Would you tell a very thin child who is being bullied to just gain some weight so she won't be bullied for being too thin? If the answer to all of those questions is "No", then telling a fat child to lose weight so he won't be bullied for being fat is just as wrong. Bullying for ANY reason is wrong and the blame needs to be placed where it belongs - on the bullies and those who stand by and refuse to stop them. Victim blaming is wrong, no matter who is doing it or why they're doing it.
Rnon
Said this on 3/7/12 At 01:06 am
It's sad how the first port of call when a fat kid gets bullied/abused is to blame the victim, and change them. Should the first thing that's done is to stop the bullies, tell them its never appropriate, and reassure the victim that they did not deserve this abuse? Especially a kid?

The second thing, if you are in doubt that your child is healthy, is to introduce them to healthy foods (if theyre not already) and find them some FUN activity that they ENJOY doing.. not focusing on their weight and giving them emotional hang ups. This is about health - what about emotional health? The stress that these insecurities can cause can lead to massive health problems.

Fat people who eat a healthy diet and an active lifestyle can be just as healthy as a thin person with the same diet and lifestyle. It's great that parents want to give their children a healthy start in life.. but it's unecessary to target the childs looks, and make them think they need to look a certain way to be healthy.

If the weight drops off when your child starts that healthy eating and active healthy movement - well, fine. It is what it is. But why aim for it, and make it the focus? If everything we say we know about weight and health is correct, shouldn't it just happen anyway if someone lives healthily? If thin = healthy habits, shouldnt a healthy living child be thin? So WHY focus on weight? Just focus on the actions, not the aesthetics.

And if the child doesnt lose weight despite a healthy lifestyle.. well.. maybe we can learn from it... Maybe we should have already....
Darliene Howell
Said this on 3/7/12 At 12:48 am
Studies show that dieting, even that considered “naturalistic”, among young people lead to weight cycling [Naturalistic weight reduction efforts predicted weight gain and onset of obesity in adolescent girls; http://ebn.bmj.com/content/3/3/88.full]

There is an evidence-based compassionate alternative to conventional dieting: Health At Every Size®. Please consider this alternative prior to making a decision that may result in weight cycling.

For more information on Health At Every Size, you can find a general explanation on Wikipedia (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Health_at_Every_Size) or find in-depth research-based information in the book Health At Every Size - The Surprising Truth About Your Weight by Dr. Linda Bacon (http://www.lindabacon.org/HAESbook/).
Said this on 3/6/12 At 05:13 pm
We do have a world of lazy kids...video games, computers, tv, etc...! I remember always begging to go outside to play, ride my bike and climbing trees (yeah I was a tomboy!). BUT, it's not their fault, it's ours as parents. Good nutrition starts at home, staying active starts at home, caring about your body starts at home. KickIntoFitness.com

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